Christmas Day at Grandpa Roy’s & Grandma Ruth’s

Christmas morning began with little Drew waking up all wet. He called frantically for his Momma, who was in the kitchen making breakfast for her husband and his mama, Abuelita Merina. Poor little Drew ended up in the bath tub. His sister, Katy washed him thoroughly with soap and rinsed him off in the warm water. Pretty soon, he started crying, “I’m cold, I’m cold.”

Whining and whimpering, Drew got out of the tub and Katy wrapped him in a towel. The whining continued as my daughter dressed him in his favorite hoodie shirt and corduroy pants. He was all ready to start Christmas Day.

Drew did not want his waffle and orange juice so his Momma wrapped the waffle in plastic wrap and put the orange juice in a travel cup and put both in his backpack for the trip to Grandpa Roy’s and Grandma Ruth’s house. We would take two cars this morning because Papi was bringing his Mamma. Drew and Katy were going to have all three of their grandmas together in one place.

My son-in-law, Rico drove his car with his mother, Merina and my daughter. Tracy was going without the children this morning to get a little break from her whining son. Chris, my son, drove with Drew in his car seat, Katy in charge of entertaining herself and her brother, and myself in the front passenger seat. The drive was pretty quiet until Drew got too warm. He started whining, then crying. Chris became nervous and asked Katy what was wrong. Katy told her uncle that her little brother was too hot. Chris told her to take Drew’s jacket off. As she did that, Chris turned the heater down and opened the window a crack to let in a little outside air. Everything was fine and Chris settled down for the rest of the drive.

Before long, we were off the freeway and driving along side the cargo runways at O’Hare Airport. We were almost to our destination. Ten minutes later, we were in Grandpa’s and Grandma’s driveway. We told them we would be there by noon and we were in the driveway two minutes before noon. We went into the house and received a wonderful Christmas welcome.

The house was filled with the smells of Christmas, with Wassail, appetizers, little meatball hoagies, shrimp & cocktail sauce, sweets, and more. In the kitchen, Grandma Ruth was cooking a savory crown roast of pork, with dressing, real mashed potatoes and gravy, salad, and fresh rolls. Dinner was absolutely wonderful. Little Drew was so excited and exhausted, he hardly ate a thing. Katy ate what was put on her plate, but she had eaten so many appetizers, she wasn’t very hungry for dinner.

We ate dinner and talked as the children ran around and played with Drew’s Ben 10 watch and light saber. I helped Ruth clear the table. She put the majority of the food in containers for everyone to take home, as I put silverware, salad bowls, and little punch cups in the dishwasher. When we finished, Ruth let everyone know it was time to open presents.

The children raced to the Christmas tree as Grandpa Roy started running the Christmas train around the tree. Drew was mesmerized by the train. He wanted to run the train, so Grandpa helped him. When everyone was seated around the roaring fire and the Christmas tree, Grandma Ruth and Drew handed out presents. Even Abuelita Merina got some nice presents. By the time everyone was finished opening some really nice gifts from Grandpa Roy and Grandma Ruth, Drew started crying tears of exhaustion. Understanding what these tears meant, my daughter picked her little boy up and took him in one of the bedrooms. She rocked him as she walked. Before too long, Drew was out like a light, asleep. Tracy laid him on the bed and let him sleep.

At that point, we sat down at the table for coffee, tea, and dessert. After Katy had her cookies, she went back to one of the bedrooms and laid down on one of the beds as well. She was tired too.

We sat and talked as Rico translated everything to his Mamma. Merina doesn’t speak English. I think Merina had a good time, though, because Grandma Ruth made sure she felt wanted and comfortable. Abuelita Merina was with her son Rico and his family. She had a very happy look on her face all day.

The day had gone by quickly. Everyone was feeling very comfortable as we sat and talked over dessert and coffee. I wanted to get into the kitchen and help Ruth wash the dishes that could not go into the dishwasher, but she told me it wouldn’t take her and Roy very long. By the time I rolled up my sleeves and started the water, my daughter came in and told me we were leaving. We left at 6:45 pm, it would be 8:45 pm before we would get home.

My son helped me into the front seat of his Escape because there was ice on the driveway. The temperature had gone down from the low 40s. Snow was falling, replacing the rain. This time, Tracy rode with us so her son would be happy. As we started out, I thought I would close my eyes for a minute or two to rest. Before I knew it, we were making the turn from US 45 onto Pilgrim Road, 5 minutes from my daughter’s house. Wow! I had slept the whole way.

Drew was happy to get out of his car seat and into his house. The first thing he wanted was his Ben 10 watch and the discs. We looked everywhere, in his backpack, in the car, in his car seat, in Katy’s backpack, no watch or discs. My daughter called Grandma Ruth’s and sure enough, the Ben 10 watch and discs were in the bathroom, where Drew had gone potty and washed his hands, with his Momma’s help.  Grandma Ruth promised to mail Drew his Ben 10 watch first thing Monday morning. I hope Tracy, his Papi, and Katy can make it until the watch comes in the mail.

I gathered my beautiful presents and my pajamas and headed for home. Ahhh! Home Sweet Home. A little lonely without Hank, but I was home. Saturday morning, I woke up late around 10:00 am. I got ready to drive to West Allis to pick up my dog. He wasn’t all too happy to see me. I suppose he was giving me the stand offish act. Into his kennel he went and we were off. Before I was on the road two minutes, Hank let me know he had to go out. I stopped in a large parking lot near the local CBS Television Station and Bally’s Fitness Club. He went twice. I picked up to “doo doo” with one of his diapers and went to find a trash can. By the time I was ready to get started, he whined again. I let him out one more time. This time, I walked him around awhile in the parking lot to allow his system to settle and back he went into the kennel.

I got on I-94 knowing I would not be taking US-45 because there were two accidents going North. We continued on I-94 until we got to Moorland Rd. I got off at Moorland and took Pilgrim Road east to I-45 totally bypassing the accidents. Throughout this drive, Hank whined letting me know he didn’t like being sequestered in the kennel. This was not a fun drive. However, by the time we got on US-45 at Pilgrim Road, Hank stopped whining. Apparently, he realized I wasn’t going to let him out so he settled down and stopped whining. What a blessing!

The weather did not cooperate on the drive home anymore than Hank. Snow fell in almost blizzard-like conditions. Between running the windshield wipers, quieting Hank, and easing the brake to stop without sliding I truly had my hands full. By the time we got home, I felt like kissing the ground. Hank got out of the kennel and went straight to the back door. He went out, did his thing, and went straight to his bed. The poor little dog was exhausted. We were home safe and sound.

This was a true story. All the names were of real people and there will likely be a similar story next Christmas. As you can see, my Christmas was memorable. I hope your Christmas was as wonderful as mine. God bless you all and I wish you all the best today and everyday throughout the year. See you tomorrow. Take care.

How Much Fun Did You Have On Christmas Day?

Christmas Eve was so much fun with my children and grandchildren. I got to my daughter and son-in-law’s home by 3:00 pm so we could all go to Christmas Mass together. We listened to the children’s choir as they sang several beautiful songs. Two of the children had solo parts and were very good. I’m sure these children practiced for months to perform on Christmas Eve. By 5:00 pm we left the church for home, traveling through pouring rain (instead of snow). Dinner was set for 6:30 pm.  The little ones were hungry but were very preoccupied, because they were so excited to start opening their presents. We waited as long as we could and when my son did not show up, my son-in-law decided to call him. My son told us to go ahead and eat dinner without him. His dinner would be kept warm until he arrived.

My daughter truly outdid herself with her Christmas Eve feast. She had been cooking and cleaning all day long. Dinner included a beautifully baked ham with pineapple, candied yams (my favorite), twice cooked baked potatoes (the children do not like yams), green beans, fresh cranberry salad, 5-ingredient marshmallow salad, and freshly baked bread. Even my grandson, Drew, who is generally a picky eater, ate his fill of ham and marshmallow salad. I helped my daughter clear the table and wash the dishes so she didn’t have to spend too much time cleaning up. When we were all done, my son showed up.

As soon as her brother walked through the back door, my daughter took his plate out of the oven where it had been warming, and she started putting more ham, green beans, and twice cooked baked potatoes on it. While Uncle Chris ate his dinner, my grandson and I played his favorite Indiana Jones game. Every time I come to his house, Drew always wants to play his mother’s Indiana Jones game because he loves the movies. However, this time, all he wanted to do was look at different video sections. He wasn’t into playing the game by the rules.

As soon as Uncle Chris was finished with dinner, my daughter announced that it was time to open presents. The children excitedly handed one present at a time to a recipient, and little Drew threw his arms around each person telling him or her Merry Christmas! He was so excited every time he received a present. My son-in-law took still photos with my daughter’s Canon digital camera and my son used his Sony camcorder to record the evening’s festivities for posterity. My son even remembered Hank (my dog) with a “Snuggie” for dogs. Actually, the week before, I had gotten the same size, same color Snuggie for Hank myself. This was a wonderful thing for my son to do to remember my dog on Christmas. I was so happy.

My daughter, son-in-law, and the children gave me a beautiful brown microfiber cape. The cape was so warm. They also gave me some really nice dangly earrings, and a stocking full of goodies. My son was so generous. He gave me a beautiful pink Snuggie (the one with the book light), a Charging Station, and a terrific box of Pot-O’-Gold variety of Milk Chocolates. My evening was complete as I sat in my rocker wrapped in my lovely chocolate colored microfiber cape and pink Snuggie.

My granddaughter, Katy, was so excited when she opened up two pairs of toed knee socks. She ran over to her Momma and gave her big kisses. Katy is an innocent little 10 year old who takes wonderful care of her brother for her Momma and Papi (in Mexico, little children call their father Papi). She is a very big help so her next gift, an MP3 player was a very exciting gift. Katy was so excited, she immediately put the ear phones in, turned her MP3 player on, and started singing to the music. What a sweet little girl! I gave Katy a Discovery Kids laptop with 55 different games and tasks that she could do with her little brother, and a pink Snuggie with a pair of pink slipper socks. She was very happy with these gifts and gave me a hug, a kiss, and a heartfelt thank you.

Then, my son opened his presents from his sister. She gave him a fleece Chicago Bear jacket. You have to understand. My son is a die-hard Chicago sports teams fan. He is in to the Cubs and the Bears mostly, not so much the Bulls or the Blackhawks. One of my presents to my son also involved the Bears. I found a Chicago Bears Snuggie and hoped he wouldn’t think it was stupid. He loved it! The Bears blanket was also available; however, he already has one so I wrapped it up for Drew. He loves to use blankets to make a fort. The Bears blanket will keep him really warm if he chooses to use it in his bed. I also got my son a heated throw blanket. If he didn’t want to use it on his couch or chair as he watched TV, he could use it in his bed. When he opened it, he was very happy to have it. I guess I had made good choices for him. That always makes me happy.

My gift to my daughter made her very happy as well. She enjoys using a straightener. Even though I knew she had one, I gave her a well-made, not inexpensive straightener, definitely not from the Dollar Store. Apparently, her straightener had stopped working, so she had spent a couple of months without one. How lucky is that? I know she will be happy with the way this one works for her. The safety holder came with it so she wouldn’t burn herself or the counter top. I hope it works well for her.

I got my son-in-law a faux fur lined hooded jacket. He spends time outside shoveling snow, working on the snow blower, the car, etc. I hope the jacket keeps him warm. My daughter started laughing when her husband opened the jacket. She said she would have fun wearing the jacket, it would keep her very warm. She was joking, I think. Tracy gets very cold during the winter, so she wears her husband’s sweaters, jackets, pajamas, etc. She said she would wear the pajamas he got last night from his brother. All her husband could do was laugh. He knew he probably would not wear the pajamas or the jacket very much.

Little Drew was jumping up and down with excitement. He and his sister played Santa, delivering gifts to recipients and giving each a hug and a cute little “Merry Christmas.” When it came time for him to open his presents, his little face lit up like the Christmas tree when he opened the “Ben 10 Wrist Watch” from his Uncle Chris. His eyes got really big and his mouth opened wide with excitement. He immediately brought the package to his Momma to open so he could play with the watch and the discs that had come with it. The Light Saber (Star Wars) his Momma and Papi had just given him ended up on the floor when the Ben 10 watch came out of the package. Drew’s Christmas was complete. The rest of his presents were somewhat anticlimactic, the Diego and Dinosaur (from me) and the Transformer (from his Uncle Chris).

By the time everyone had opened their presents, it was 11:00 pm, time for bed. We had to get up the next day and drive to Addison, a suburb of Chicago, for Christmas Dinner with Tracy’s Dad and his wife (Grandma Ruth). Tomorrow, I will let you know how Christmas with Dad and Ruth went. We had a great dinner and there were more presents to open.

I hope all of my readers had as much fun Christmas Eve as I had. If not, you will be in my prayers and thoughts. Take care and don’t be afraid to leave a comment or two or three. Love to all!

It’s Christmas Eve 2009

This morning when I got up, I realized my dog had not slept with me as he usually does. I heard him walking around about 6:45 am looking for me. Calling out to him didn’t help because he is hard of hearing so I got up to let him outside. By the time I got to the living room, it was too late. He had gone to his usual “wee-wee” place in front of the TV and did his thing. How could he do that? He knew I had gone to bed and left the light on so he could see to climb up his steps to the bed. Why did he openly do his thing on the carpet?

Hank may not be able to hear or see very well, but he is aware of changes in his routine. Last night, he watched me while I wrapped presents in the kitchen until 10:00 pm. He watched as I typed up instructions for his sitter. When I talked with his sitter on the phone, he began to withdraw. He knew something was going on that involved him and he didn’t want any part of it.

The trip to the sitter will be a little hard for Hank because he gets so nervous. I have to drive on the freeway for quite awhile, which means this usually easy going little white dog is anxiously having a “hissy fit” for 20 miles, until the exit in West Allis. Then I have to put him on a leash and let him walk around and relieve himself. What a drive!

194204As you can see, this little 14 year old dog is may be old and infirm,but he is as smart as a whip. He fights me all the way there, but when he gets to his sitter’s house, Kathi always makes him feel welcome. Hank always has other dogs to play with. And besides, he’s only going to be there two nights and one day. The last couple of times he went to Kathi’s, he had to stay three weeks each time. I tried to explain to him that it won’t be so bad, but he’s not convinced.

I feel bad about leaving him with a sitter, but I’m glad there will be someone there to give him his medicine and let him outside to do his thing. At least he won’t be alone. He doesn’t know it yet, but he’s going to have a great time.

On the way to Kathi’s, I’m going to tell him the story of Christmas. I’m going to tell him how Joseph and Mary were getting ready for their trip to Bethlehem. Every so often, the Romans required everyone to travel to the place of their birth and be counted. In other words, Joseph and Mary had to participate in a census, just like we do every so often. Joseph was concerned for Mary as she was with child, so he wanted to make the trip as easy for her as possible.

When they got to Bethlehem, Joseph went to a hotel to get a room for himself and Mary. Every room in the hotel was full. Joseph heard the same story from every hotel owner in Bethlehem, “There are no rooms available here.” Joseph asked the last hotel owner if there was some other type of shelter available, because his wife was with child and needed a place to rest. The hotel owner told Joseph that he and Mary could stay in the stable behind the hotel with the animals.

Joseph led his donkey around to the rear of the hotel and helped Mary off. She was weary from the trip. Joseph rearranged the hay to provide a comfortable area for Mary to rest. Mary rested for awhile and then realized that it was time for her baby to be born. Joseph found a manger and filled it with hay. He also found a few pieces of material to wrap the baby in.

Mary did not have any discomfort when she gave birth to her baby. She and Joseph wrapped their baby in the material as warmly as they could and laid the baby boy in the manger. As she had been instructed, she named her newborn baby boy “Jesus.”

As soon as Jesus came into the world, a very bright star shown in the sky. The Bible says it shown in the East. Shepherds saw the star and brought their sheep in it’s direction. When they reached the stable and saw Joseph and Mary as she held Jesus in her arms, they lay face down and welcomed Jesus into the world.

The shepherds weren’t the only people who had seen the star and traveled toward it. Three king from the Orient saw the star and traveled far to bring gifts to Jesus. They brought gold, incense, and myrrh and set these gifts before Jesus. They felt that the beautiful bright star belonged to a king, so as each king presented his gift to Joseph, Mary, and Baby Jesus, he knelt in homage.

The three kings started the tradition of gift-giving as they each brought Jesus a gift. That is why we give gifts to our loved ones and people we are close to.

I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas. If you are traveling, please be careful if the streets are slippery. And for heaven’s sake, please don’t drink and drive. Be safe, and I’ll see you on Saturday. As I said yesterday, there will not be an article tomorrow, on Christmas, as I will be out of town. Take care, and God Bless every one, and thank you so much for reading my blog.