Have The Best Year Ever

If you have been reading my articles for the last few weeks, I’m sure you have decided to crawl into your bed and pull the covers up and over for the rest of the year. The economic forecast is dismal. States’ unemployment figures are high. Many jobs are going by the wayside due to technology. There is so much bad news, people are beginning to wonder if there are any more reasons to be happy. Some people are going so far as to call our economic status “The New Depression.”

I don’t know about you, but I refuse to throw in the towel and let the economy get the best of me. At the beginning of this New Year, we all made our resolutions to lose weight, exercise more, eat less junk food, walk up the stairs instead of taking the elevator, etc. Is everyone working on your resolutions or have you forgotten all about them? That’s what usually happens to New Year’s resolutions. You make them on New Year’s Eve, and three weeks later they are forgotten.

Dr. Joe Vitale tells us to forget about resolutions. He says that our resolutions are based on magical thinking, wishful thinking, and they lack any real commitment or plan. If you think about this, we usually write down the same resolutions every year hoping that one of these times, we’ll succeed. For the most part, resolutions are for wimps. We need to change the term to “Positive Predictions!” I really like the term Positive Predictions better, don’t you?

The difference between New Year’s Resolutions and Positive Predictions is with the resolutions, you write them down on paper at the beginning of the year and by February 1st, they’re forgotten. With Positive Predictions, you decide what you want, write them down as if they have already happened, and then attract them. If you do this correctly, you will attract your positive prediction, and the operative word here is “positive.” Let me show you how this works.

As Dr. Joe Vitale says, it’s a fun and creative exercise that allows you to visualize the future, contemplate unlimited possibilities, and actually begin to attract the new reality to you.

Of course, all too often individuals fixate on negative future predictions. 1984, Y2K and 2012, are just a few of the dates that come to mind. It seems there’s always an apocalyptic event looming on the horizon. Unfortunately, when these dates come and go without incident, they are quickly replaced by new, even more menacing predictions. Ho hum.

There’s a better way. Instead of imagining a doom and gloom scenario, let’s imagine a happy and prosperous one. Let’s make 2010 the year of Positive Predictions. For example, here’s a sampling of the Positive Predictions Dr. Vitale  added to his list for 2010:

Buoyed largely by the creative ideas of marketers, inventors and entrepreneurs, the United States explodes out of the current recession by harnessing several new technologies. People experience prosperity again! (Keep these positive thoughts going!)

Alternative sources of energy and innovative automobile technologies begins to reach a level of critical mass, resulting in dramatically lower demand for fossil fuels. We exit 2010 at an average price of $1.90 per gallon of gas — and falling. (Hoo Rah, Hoo Rah, Hoo Rah)

I climbed to the top of my 15 foot climbing rope with my arms only and it becomes an inspiring YouTube video. (I would have to work on this one really hard, wouldn’t you?)

Dr. Joe’s free book Attract Money Now is translated into every major language, is downloaded by tens of millions of people worldwide, and becomes a New York Times bestseller after a publisher pays me a huge seven-figure advance for the rights to it.

Operation Yes makes a major impact in ending homelessness in America.

Dr. Vitale launched the first ever Billionaire Bugatti Mastermind.

The Attract Miracles Community reaches critical mass and transforms the planet with a single thought projected around the world – by thought alone.

Dr. Vitale went on David Letterman, Jay Leno and Jon Stewart’s TV shows, showing his incredible Alien Guitar.

Dr. Vitale’s hydrogen-gas super car, The Scorpion was delivered mid-year and got front page news across the world as the first truly sexy environmentally friendly muscle car. He loves that car!

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As you can see, this exercise is exciting. You might also note the “predictions” are written as if they are after-the-fact reports. It’s based on a process Dr. Vitale calls “Nevillizing,” named after famed mystic Neville Goddard. Dr. Vitale discusses the practice of “Nevillizing” your goals in both The Attractor Factor and more recently in Attract Money Now.

“Nevillizing your goal” is imagining or visualizing what life would be like if your goal were already achieved today. The objective is to make an emotional connection to your future. You pretend it has already happened. This allows your subconscious mind to believe it’s possible, as well as to program the Universe to bring that vision into your reality.

Neville himself said –

“There is only one cause, and that is consciousness. Your consciousness is the center from which your world mirrors and echoes the state you presently occupy.”

Consider the act of making a prediction. Generally, meaningful predictions require that you step out of your comfort zone and take a risk. Dr. Vitale is not talking about unimportant predictions that anyone can make. He is talking about “worthy” predictions that make your subconscious mind take notice and say “Wow, this guy/gal isn’t fooling around!”

Contrast this to the standard practice of creating New Year’s resolutions. If you are like many individuals, you may write down a list of resolutions for the year. This ritual has become so routine that very little emotion if any permeates to the subconscious. Not to mention there’s virtually no personal accountability tied to the resolution.

Need proof?

You need look no further than your local health-club or gym. As of today, January 16, 2010, most are bursting at the seams with new members. Check back with these same clubs in July and you’ll notice that their attendance has dropped back to late 2009 levels.

Generally, resolutions are easy to forget or dismiss. However, Nevillized Positive Predictions have much stronger emotional ties and longevity. They will begin the process of attracting a new reality based on the Law of Attraction and the power of intention.

So here’s my personal challenge to you: Create a list of Positive Predictions. Do it today. Right now.

Have fun with it. Like Dr. Vitale’s, some can focus on world events. Others can be personal challenges that really stretch your boundaries. If you have already created a list of resolutions, you can easily convert them into predictions. Just remember to make them worthy. And be sure to write them as if they already happened. And record your excitement.

A great way to ensure that your Positive Predictions become a reality is through Mastermind Groups and Personal Coaching. Both can provide the necessary accountability, access to creative ideas, and insights to make your wildest predictions come true.

Here’s something most people don’t know:

Years ago Dr. Vitale walked into his Mastermind Group at the time and stated that he wanted to be in a movie. Not just any movie, and not as some fly on the wall. He wanted a noteworthy part.

At the time he had no movie experience or connections. But he stated his goal and let his Mastermind Group support his intention with their good thoughts.

That’s it.

He didn’t try to get an acting job.

He didn’t send out resumes or sexy photos of himself.

He just waited, expecting his miracle, and ready to take action when inspiration or opportunity appeared.

Three months later a woman named Rhonda Byrne read Dr. Vitale’s book, The Attractor Factor, and called him, asking if he would like to be in her movie, called The Secret.

The rest, as they say, is history.

This is the power of Positive Predictions, Mastermind Groups, and Personal Coaching.

There are many excellent coaching programs available. Take for example, Triune Training Systems – a program designed to help individuals and business owners become successful entrepreneurs in the Milwaukee area.

The Mastermind Center - a mastermind group open to members of Triune Training Systems. For more information about the coaching program and the mastermind group, please leave a comment with your email address so I can contact you.

Go out and make 2010 the best year ever!


Do You Attract Angels or Devils?

For the most part, I have always been a positive person because I didn’t know enough to be pessimistic. My life had the usual ups and downs; but I also had blessings for which I am very grateful. Every day I thank God (because I have a strong belief in God) for my three children, my two grandchildren, the roof over my head, the food on my table, my car, clothes, furniture, and my many friends.

Do you believe that your thoughts are powerful? They are. Dr. Joe Vitale, author of The Attractor Factor and many more books to list here and Mike Dooley, author of Thoughts Become Things–Choose Them Wisely, say that whatever you think about, comes about. If you think negative thoughts, negative things come to you. That is why it is so important to think positively.

OK! I know exactly what you are thinking! You are saying to yourself, “What is this woman talking about? Does she truly believe that thinking positive thoughts will turn my life around?” Well I say to that, absolutely! Positive thoughts bring about positive actions.

Now I realize that if you grew up thinking that nothing good would happen to you and you still have those thoughts at 40 years old or however old or young you are, changing pessimistic thought patterns will not happen overnight. You will have to work at it. Also, you  have to want to change your thought patterns in order for change to happen in your life. If you don’t make a conscious effort to change your thought patterns, negative things will continue to happen.

Dr. Joe Vitale has a new book published that you can download free of charge, Attract Money Now. If you don’t have a computer, go to the library and use the computer to access the book in Adobe Acrobat. He provides a checklist for changing your thought patterns. If you have difficulties believing that your thoughts become your reality, just think about it. Has your life been happy? Have your pessimistic thoughts made life easier or better for you? Let me tell you about something that happened to me.

About 30 years ago, when I was in my late 20’s early 30’s, I wanted to be in the military. I filled out the application to get in the Navy and unfortunately was turned down. After that, I felt like life would never be the same; but, as the single mother with three children, I had to go on. I still wanted to be in the military. Why me! Why couldn’t things happen when I wanted them to? My thoughts about the military were put aside because I needed to care for my children; however, I kept dreaming about being an officer in the Army, Navy, or Air Force. How proud I would be!

In 1980, I became disabled and was on crutches for the next 10 years. Unable to practice nursing, the Department of Vocational Rehabilitation helped me practice my typing skills and got me a job at the local Air Force base in Tucson, Arizona. From 1982 to 1990, I went from a Clerk-Typist GS-03 to a Program Analyst, GS-09, making great money and earning a lot of respect. The eight years I spent as a disabled worker were the happiest of my life because my efforts were appreciated.

The turning point in this story happened as a result of the first Desert Storm. I wanted to be in the military to help my country; however, I was still on crutches and non-weight-bearing on my right leg. Being in the military was so important to me, I willed myself to be better. The odds were stacked high against my succeeding. My recruiter told me the incredible odds, but he was willing to help. Everything he asked for I produced. My physical went well, the package was ready to go. The nurse recruiter felt that because I had not practiced in eight years, I needed to go back to nursing and work in it for awhile and then they would consider me.

Not only did I work my 40 hour week, but I went to a company that provided nurses to hospitals on a day to day basis, passed their difficult exam, and started working 20 hours per week on the weekends at the hospitals in town. That was difficult because each of the 4 hospitals in town did things differently. Learning their shift routines was hard enough, but to learn their machines and medication cart procedures nearly drove me to quit. However, for three months I worked 60 hours, seven days a week with the thought that my dream would come true and I would be inducted into the military.

At the end of the third month, the Air Force sent down its verdict. They had voted in my favor. I was ecstatic! My dream had come true. I had jumped through every hoop tossed in my direction. If my dreams can come true, so can yours, but only if you believe.

Now, my dream is to begin a new career as a financial adviser. I’m going to pass the Series 65 licensing exam to be an Investment Adviser Representative (IAR) on January 29, 2010, the Life/Health Exam in February, and the Series 6 and 63 in March. I will be out of debt, financially independent by the end of this year; and, I have faith that my dreams will come true.

These things will happen in my life because I believe they will happen. Even though I know my dream will come true, I still find myself doubting all of my abilities, at times.  I know I’m doing what God wants me to do. Changing my thought patterns was not easy; however, as my dreams began coming true I realized that my positive thoughts created the  positive actions. Sometimes, I still find myself thinking and saying  things that I shouldn’t think and say; however, I’m catching the errors quicker and changing my self-think and -talk.

Changing your thoughts from pessimistic to optimistic requires action. If you want to change, you will and if you don’t you won’t. If you do want to change, you have to work on changing one thought and one action at a time. You can do it. I believe in every one of you. If you want to change your life for the better, you to believe. This is all it takes. The change won’t happen overnight, but if you start now, your thoughts and actions will be more positive and you will have successes instead of failures. Successes! You can have them whenever you want. Think about them, talk about them, and most of all experience them.

Be Thankful For What You Have

Last night, my best friend came over to help me study for the Series 65 examination. She was supposed to be at my house at or around 6:00 pm. When she drove up at 9:00 pm, I was surprised, but happy that she arrived safely from a  holiday get-together at her ex-in-laws. I opened the garage door and let her come through the laundry area so she wouldn’t have to walk all the way around to the front door in the cold.

As soon as she came in, I turned on the fireplace so she could get warm. I usually do not run the fireplace when I’m home alone to keep expenses down. However, I know my friend loves the warmth of the fireplace, so when she’s at my house, I turn the fireplace on just for her. She’s always so appreciative.

We talked about her experiences staying the night at her friend’s house by the lake and about the party at her late husband’s relatives’ home. She apologized for her outbursts of frustration earlier in the week. Every so often, my dear friend feels like her situation is not getting better. She feels as if the Lord has not heard her prayers for prosperity, abundance, and a lot of money. Her business is doing fairly well, but I don’t think she is seeing the good things that have happened because the “not so good” things have been the priority in her life recently.

My mentor is my friend’s business coach, just as I am. We have gotten together to combine our expertise to help businesses become successful and profitable in this recession. One of the first businesses we collaborated to help is my friend’s business because it is the core of our “Health, Wealth, and Beyond” system. My friend’s business is going to succeed with our help, but sometimes she has to be brought back down to earth and shown that she is doing better than she thinks she is.

To enhance my friend’s understanding about what she needs to be thankful for, I explained the abundance revelation that came to me just yesterday. I realized abundance in my life when I found a new container of oatmeal next to the half empty one and the box of artificial sweetener on top of the almost empty one in my cabinet. When I opened the refrigerator, there was plenty of milk to last for another week or so. There’s plenty of food in the cabinet and soda in the refrigerator. What more do I need? When I realized the presence of all of these necessities, I was thankful to God for providing for me. There is enough money in the bank to pay for the food, the mortgage, and the bills. The Lord has seen fit to provide an abundance of food for my table, heat to keep the house warm during these cold winter days, electricity, water, etc., everything I need to live a good life. I’m also very grateful for my car and the money to put gasoline in the tank. What more could a person want?

When I explained this to my friend, she thanked me for bringing this to her attention because she also experiences an abundance of some of the same things in her life too. I told her when negative or depressive thoughts come into her head, she should think about the things in her life that make her feel grateful e.g., her three children Deani, Joe, & Julia; her friends; her church; etc. There is a ritual to do this which involves taking deep breaths, closing the eyes, and thinking about the things in your life that make you feel grateful.

The ritual actually works, especially in stress-producing situations. When you are feeling stressful or in the middle of an anxiety attack, stop what you are doing. Close your eyes, take a deep breath and count to 10. Take 2 0r 3 deep breaths and immediately think about what makes you grateful. Maintain your grateful thoughts for a few minutes and when you open your eyes, you will feel relaxed and in a positive frame of mind.

Try this technique. The breathing technique alone will provide your brain with oxygen to decrease the stress you are feeling. Thinking about the people that are close to you or about someone you love very much will change feelings of distress to feelings of peace and contentment.  Then you can think clearly without the negative emotions.

In order to create abundance or prosperity in your life, you have to get rid of the subconscious thoughts and feelings that are keeping abundance or prosperity from coming to you. I know many of you have heard of the law of attraction. You might be saying, “Oh brother! Another person is talking and writing about this subject. All of a sudden everyone is talking about the law of attraction.” Yes, the law of attraction really exists.

People need to get rid of all the deep seated thoughts and feelings that are blocking them from receiving what they want. Getting rid of what is blocking you from receiving everything you want in life may be easier said than done because you may not be able to identify the thoughts that are getting in the way. For example, you may not know what is causing you not to receive the money you need in your business. In order to receive, you have to get rid of the deep thoughts and feelings that are impeding your progress. If you were raised with the idea that “Money is the root of all evil,” or “Rich people are lazy and greedy,” or “Money won’t make you happy,” you may subconsciously be blocking your goals.

Identifying the block can help you release it and only then will you be able to attain your goals. This is a spiritual concept. If you believe in a Supreme Being as I do, God will help you release what is keeping you from attaining your goals. All you need to do is ask Him. If you do not believe in God, you can ask the Universe to help you release the blockages that are holding you back from receiving what you want in life.

So there you have it. An attitude of gratitude will allow you to receive whatever you want in life. Don’t be afraid to try this. All it can do is work and you will start receiving everything you want personally and professionally.