How Much Fun Did You Have On Christmas Day?

Christmas Eve was so much fun with my children and grandchildren. I got to my daughter and son-in-law’s home by 3:00 pm so we could all go to Christmas Mass together. We listened to the children’s choir as they sang several beautiful songs. Two of the children had solo parts and were very good. I’m sure these children practiced for months to perform on Christmas Eve. By 5:00 pm we left the church for home, traveling through pouring rain (instead of snow). Dinner was set for 6:30 pm.  The little ones were hungry but were very preoccupied, because they were so excited to start opening their presents. We waited as long as we could and when my son did not show up, my son-in-law decided to call him. My son told us to go ahead and eat dinner without him. His dinner would be kept warm until he arrived.

My daughter truly outdid herself with her Christmas Eve feast. She had been cooking and cleaning all day long. Dinner included a beautifully baked ham with pineapple, candied yams (my favorite), twice cooked baked potatoes (the children do not like yams), green beans, fresh cranberry salad, 5-ingredient marshmallow salad, and freshly baked bread. Even my grandson, Drew, who is generally a picky eater, ate his fill of ham and marshmallow salad. I helped my daughter clear the table and wash the dishes so she didn’t have to spend too much time cleaning up. When we were all done, my son showed up.

As soon as her brother walked through the back door, my daughter took his plate out of the oven where it had been warming, and she started putting more ham, green beans, and twice cooked baked potatoes on it. While Uncle Chris ate his dinner, my grandson and I played his favorite Indiana Jones game. Every time I come to his house, Drew always wants to play his mother’s Indiana Jones game because he loves the movies. However, this time, all he wanted to do was look at different video sections. He wasn’t into playing the game by the rules.

As soon as Uncle Chris was finished with dinner, my daughter announced that it was time to open presents. The children excitedly handed one present at a time to a recipient, and little Drew threw his arms around each person telling him or her Merry Christmas! He was so excited every time he received a present. My son-in-law took still photos with my daughter’s Canon digital camera and my son used his Sony camcorder to record the evening’s festivities for posterity. My son even remembered Hank (my dog) with a “Snuggie” for dogs. Actually, the week before, I had gotten the same size, same color Snuggie for Hank myself. This was a wonderful thing for my son to do to remember my dog on Christmas. I was so happy.

My daughter, son-in-law, and the children gave me a beautiful brown microfiber cape. The cape was so warm. They also gave me some really nice dangly earrings, and a stocking full of goodies. My son was so generous. He gave me a beautiful pink Snuggie (the one with the book light), a Charging Station, and a terrific box of Pot-O’-Gold variety of Milk Chocolates. My evening was complete as I sat in my rocker wrapped in my lovely chocolate colored microfiber cape and pink Snuggie.

My granddaughter, Katy, was so excited when she opened up two pairs of toed knee socks. She ran over to her Momma and gave her big kisses. Katy is an innocent little 10 year old who takes wonderful care of her brother for her Momma and Papi (in Mexico, little children call their father Papi). She is a very big help so her next gift, an MP3 player was a very exciting gift. Katy was so excited, she immediately put the ear phones in, turned her MP3 player on, and started singing to the music. What a sweet little girl! I gave Katy a Discovery Kids laptop with 55 different games and tasks that she could do with her little brother, and a pink Snuggie with a pair of pink slipper socks. She was very happy with these gifts and gave me a hug, a kiss, and a heartfelt thank you.

Then, my son opened his presents from his sister. She gave him a fleece Chicago Bear jacket. You have to understand. My son is a die-hard Chicago sports teams fan. He is in to the Cubs and the Bears mostly, not so much the Bulls or the Blackhawks. One of my presents to my son also involved the Bears. I found a Chicago Bears Snuggie and hoped he wouldn’t think it was stupid. He loved it! The Bears blanket was also available; however, he already has one so I wrapped it up for Drew. He loves to use blankets to make a fort. The Bears blanket will keep him really warm if he chooses to use it in his bed. I also got my son a heated throw blanket. If he didn’t want to use it on his couch or chair as he watched TV, he could use it in his bed. When he opened it, he was very happy to have it. I guess I had made good choices for him. That always makes me happy.

My gift to my daughter made her very happy as well. She enjoys using a straightener. Even though I knew she had one, I gave her a well-made, not inexpensive straightener, definitely not from the Dollar Store. Apparently, her straightener had stopped working, so she had spent a couple of months without one. How lucky is that? I know she will be happy with the way this one works for her. The safety holder came with it so she wouldn’t burn herself or the counter top. I hope it works well for her.

I got my son-in-law a faux fur lined hooded jacket. He spends time outside shoveling snow, working on the snow blower, the car, etc. I hope the jacket keeps him warm. My daughter started laughing when her husband opened the jacket. She said she would have fun wearing the jacket, it would keep her very warm. She was joking, I think. Tracy gets very cold during the winter, so she wears her husband’s sweaters, jackets, pajamas, etc. She said she would wear the pajamas he got last night from his brother. All her husband could do was laugh. He knew he probably would not wear the pajamas or the jacket very much.

Little Drew was jumping up and down with excitement. He and his sister played Santa, delivering gifts to recipients and giving each a hug and a cute little “Merry Christmas.” When it came time for him to open his presents, his little face lit up like the Christmas tree when he opened the “Ben 10 Wrist Watch” from his Uncle Chris. His eyes got really big and his mouth opened wide with excitement. He immediately brought the package to his Momma to open so he could play with the watch and the discs that had come with it. The Light Saber (Star Wars) his Momma and Papi had just given him ended up on the floor when the Ben 10 watch came out of the package. Drew’s Christmas was complete. The rest of his presents were somewhat anticlimactic, the Diego and Dinosaur (from me) and the Transformer (from his Uncle Chris).

By the time everyone had opened their presents, it was 11:00 pm, time for bed. We had to get up the next day and drive to Addison, a suburb of Chicago, for Christmas Dinner with Tracy’s Dad and his wife (Grandma Ruth). Tomorrow, I will let you know how Christmas with Dad and Ruth went. We had a great dinner and there were more presents to open.

I hope all of my readers had as much fun Christmas Eve as I had. If not, you will be in my prayers and thoughts. Take care and don’t be afraid to leave a comment or two or three. Love to all!

It’s Christmas Eve 2009

This morning when I got up, I realized my dog had not slept with me as he usually does. I heard him walking around about 6:45 am looking for me. Calling out to him didn’t help because he is hard of hearing so I got up to let him outside. By the time I got to the living room, it was too late. He had gone to his usual “wee-wee” place in front of the TV and did his thing. How could he do that? He knew I had gone to bed and left the light on so he could see to climb up his steps to the bed. Why did he openly do his thing on the carpet?

Hank may not be able to hear or see very well, but he is aware of changes in his routine. Last night, he watched me while I wrapped presents in the kitchen until 10:00 pm. He watched as I typed up instructions for his sitter. When I talked with his sitter on the phone, he began to withdraw. He knew something was going on that involved him and he didn’t want any part of it.

The trip to the sitter will be a little hard for Hank because he gets so nervous. I have to drive on the freeway for quite awhile, which means this usually easy going little white dog is anxiously having a “hissy fit” for 20 miles, until the exit in West Allis. Then I have to put him on a leash and let him walk around and relieve himself. What a drive!

194204As you can see, this little 14 year old dog is may be old and infirm,but he is as smart as a whip. He fights me all the way there, but when he gets to his sitter’s house, Kathi always makes him feel welcome. Hank always has other dogs to play with. And besides, he’s only going to be there two nights and one day. The last couple of times he went to Kathi’s, he had to stay three weeks each time. I tried to explain to him that it won’t be so bad, but he’s not convinced.

I feel bad about leaving him with a sitter, but I’m glad there will be someone there to give him his medicine and let him outside to do his thing. At least he won’t be alone. He doesn’t know it yet, but he’s going to have a great time.

On the way to Kathi’s, I’m going to tell him the story of Christmas. I’m going to tell him how Joseph and Mary were getting ready for their trip to Bethlehem. Every so often, the Romans required everyone to travel to the place of their birth and be counted. In other words, Joseph and Mary had to participate in a census, just like we do every so often. Joseph was concerned for Mary as she was with child, so he wanted to make the trip as easy for her as possible.

When they got to Bethlehem, Joseph went to a hotel to get a room for himself and Mary. Every room in the hotel was full. Joseph heard the same story from every hotel owner in Bethlehem, “There are no rooms available here.” Joseph asked the last hotel owner if there was some other type of shelter available, because his wife was with child and needed a place to rest. The hotel owner told Joseph that he and Mary could stay in the stable behind the hotel with the animals.

Joseph led his donkey around to the rear of the hotel and helped Mary off. She was weary from the trip. Joseph rearranged the hay to provide a comfortable area for Mary to rest. Mary rested for awhile and then realized that it was time for her baby to be born. Joseph found a manger and filled it with hay. He also found a few pieces of material to wrap the baby in.

Mary did not have any discomfort when she gave birth to her baby. She and Joseph wrapped their baby in the material as warmly as they could and laid the baby boy in the manger. As she had been instructed, she named her newborn baby boy “Jesus.”

As soon as Jesus came into the world, a very bright star shown in the sky. The Bible says it shown in the East. Shepherds saw the star and brought their sheep in it’s direction. When they reached the stable and saw Joseph and Mary as she held Jesus in her arms, they lay face down and welcomed Jesus into the world.

The shepherds weren’t the only people who had seen the star and traveled toward it. Three king from the Orient saw the star and traveled far to bring gifts to Jesus. They brought gold, incense, and myrrh and set these gifts before Jesus. They felt that the beautiful bright star belonged to a king, so as each king presented his gift to Joseph, Mary, and Baby Jesus, he knelt in homage.

The three kings started the tradition of gift-giving as they each brought Jesus a gift. That is why we give gifts to our loved ones and people we are close to.

I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas. If you are traveling, please be careful if the streets are slippery. And for heaven’s sake, please don’t drink and drive. Be safe, and I’ll see you on Saturday. As I said yesterday, there will not be an article tomorrow, on Christmas, as I will be out of town. Take care, and God Bless every one, and thank you so much for reading my blog.

A Season of Giving!

Christmas is almost here. There are only 12 days until Christmas Day. Every year, the children look forward to Christmas for many different reasons. Some children are happy because they are on vacation from school. Children are happy because they know they get presents either on Christmas Eve or on Christmas Day. Santa Claus or Saint Nick comes on Christmas to bring gifts to good little children. Sometimes, parents use Christmas to force their children to behave. They say, “If you don’t behave, Santa Claus will not bring you any presents for Christmas.”

Every child looks forward to getting the things they want. Even adults look forward to the day when they can buy the motorcycle of their dreams, the car they’ve always wanted, or the best high definition television money can buy. However, some people are happy when they can put food on the table and a roof over their families’ heads. Sometimes, the roof over their head leaks, the floor boards are rotting, and the basement is reeking with mildew; but, they still go on with life helping themselves and others just to live day to day. Then, you see a television program like ABC’s “Extreme Makeover: Home Edition” and realize that there are so many people out there living in substandard homes and giving shelter to the homeless, or working with the American Cancer Society to raise money to get rid of breast cancer in our lifetime. There are countless people in our world that are very unselfish and put others first every day of their lives. There are even people that take in homeless animals, care for them, feed them, and then try to find homes for them.

I have to tell you that “Extreme Makeover: Home Edition” is my all time favorite show. Watching Ty Pennington and the designers working feverishly to build or remodel a house in 7 days is not just entertaining, it is a miracle. The builders, craftsman, and volunteers that have donated their time are a real inspiration as they work 24 hours a day until the home is completed. Then, to see the reaction of the family to their new home is the most priceless thing of all. Every time I watch this show, I am emotionally overwhelmed by the family that is receiving the new home and the dedication of the builders and everyone associated with the project. There are so many people out there that deserve the very best of everything that they receive when they are chosen for this show. Unfortunately, there are so many people that are deserving of everything that life has to offer; but, they don’t receive anything for their generous hearts and the amount of work they do for others without any thoughts for themselves.

If the world was perfect, every person would have the home of their dreams, the furniture they love, and as much money as they need to fund their dreams. Even though Extreme Makeover helps one family a week, at least one family is being helped out of the poverty housing to live in a beautiful new home with new furniture, appliances, a new yard, and the best landscaping. Some people are even given their beautiful home mortgage-free, because the builder has given them a check to pay the entire mortgage. Now that is a gift.

Not only does the family receive a beautiful new home, but they also receive a vacation while their home is being transformed into a virtual palace. I believe there was only one family that asked to give back to a hospital that gave so much for their daughter’s care. This family went to the hospital every day for the week and volunteered their time on the ward. This was their way of giving back and saying “Thank You” to the doctors, nurses, and ancillary staff who had helped their daughter get better.

Christmas is a time for giving gifts to our loved ones just like the Three Kings brought gifts to Jesus at his birth. Many of us are not as affluent or rich as ABC to give a gift of a new home to someone who thinks of others first. However, the presents we give to our loved ones and a gift to a favorite charity makes us feel good because in our hearts, we know it is more important to give than to receive.  We need to keep this thought in our hearts every day of the year, “It is better to give, than to receive.”

Only 19 Days Til Christmas!

Oh My Gosh! There are only 19 days until Christmas! There are so many things I have to do to get ready! I wish I had more time and it sure would be nice if I had a clone.

Are you stressing about Christmas which is almost here? Do you have to work overtime every day this month to pay for the gifts you are buying for everyone for Christmas? Have you maxed out your credit card buying presents for your family and friends?

I hope you have answered no to all of the above questions. First of all, Christmas should be a season of love and goodwill. The parties give us the opportunity to gather with friends and celebrate the season. Buying gifts for family and friends should not be a chore nor should it break the bank. We don’t need to spend a lot of money to show our loved ones and the people that are already special to us how we feel about them.

So many people get depressed during the holidays than at any other time of the year. In my opinion, some of these depressed individuals are someone’s relative or friend that is living alone. Many of our older relatives and friends that live alone do not see us as often as they would like. During Christmas time, a gift is a lovely way to remember them; however, a more memorable gift would be to visit them once a week, every week. Don’t just promise them you will visit more often, DO IT. The greatest gift of all is LOVE!

Feeling stressed about Christmas is definitely not the way to enjoy this wonderful season. After all, Christmas is not just decorating your house, getting your Christmas cards addressed and mailed, buying presents for everyone you know, going to dinner parties and get-togethers, etc. I think many of us have forgotten the real meaning of Christmas. We are celebrating the birth of Jesus! God sent his Son, Jesus, to live on earth and save us from our sins. The story the Bible tells us gives us the reason for celebrating Christmas. Mary and Joseph (Jesus’ parents to be) couldn’t find a room at any of the inns in Bethlehem. The stable was the only place available for Mary to rest before she gave birth. She gave birth to Jesus in the cold, but in a less windy area, in a stable. I just can’t imagine giving birth to a baby in a stable, can you? That must have been an ordeal. Thankfully, according to the story, God relieved Mary of the discomfort.

A Star provided an unusually bright light in the sky as soon as Jesus was born. Three Kings from countries East of Bethlehem saw the star, and came bearing gifts to present to Jesus, whom they believed was a King. These gifts symbolize our gifts to one another and our loved ones. So you see the gifts we present to the people we know and love, and hopefully the gifts we give to those less fortunate (our favorite charities) are symbols of our love for Jesus. If we are giving gifts in the name of Jesus, then we are giving for the right reasons.

The gifts you give to people on Christmas should be from your heart. They don’t have to be expensive. I realize that everything in the stores is expensive. Even with the retail stores having “Black Friday” sales every day, buying presents for everybody can take a lot of money from your checking and savings accounts and your credit cards. Some families are only buying presents for the children and are choosing one family member’s name. That way, each family member will have a gift, and you won’t have to buy a present for everyone.

The moral of this article is Christmas should be a season of Love and Giving. We need to give from our hearts, not from our pockets. If the holiday season gives you a lot of stress, sit down and think about what it is that causes the stress. Find out what it is and eliminate it. Christmas should make you happy, not depressed and overdrawn at the bank. Think about it. If you have the money to spend on a lot of gifts, knock yourself out! If you don’t have a lot of money, give from your heart.

Creative Gifting For Christmas!

Wow! Time really flies doesn’t it? Before you know it, you are out there in the crowd fighting tooth and nail for a bargain. This recession is different than any of the others in the past few years, because many more people have been affected by it. So many people are unemployed, businesses are closing their doors, the housing market is trying to make a comeback, but it still has a long way to go.

There it is! Most of the bad news is out in the open. No more!

Now it is time to lift spirits. Christmas is 20 days away. This has always been the “…The Most Wonderful Time of the Year” for me. I love the decorations; the excitement of my children, grandchildren, and their friends; the goodwill people have towards one another…all the wonderful food and treats; gifts; time off; and the family get-togethers. I love Christmas time!

Everyone is out buying gifts to “give” to family and friends. Giving feels just as good, or maybe better than receiving. When you buy someone a gift, it means you had to think about that person. That’s why you hear the cliche “It’s the thought that counts.” Buying the appropriate gift for a person requires thought and a lot of caring. That is why giving gifts is such fun.

On the other hand, some people find going out to buy gifts boring and a chore. If this is how you feel, even if you are buying gifts for people you care about, then don’t do it. Give whatever expresses the feelings you have for them. If you enjoy baking, give your family cookies, cakes, etc. These tasty morsels will give you pleasure as you are baking them, and more importantly, your family members will be happy to receive such a heartfelt, homemade gift.

If you can’t bake or cook, like me, what else can you do to create a gift for someone? One thing I’ve done in the past that delighted the women on my Christmas list, was to sew brightly colored dresses (like a muu-muu). Each woman was touched with her gift and marveled that I had taken the time to make such a personalized and beautiful gift. I have to tell you that the pattern was very simple. All I needed to do was sew straight seems, simple collars, and short sleeves. Each dress took about 2 1/2 to 3 hours to make. Now, you realize I did this about 20 years ago. Patterns and material were much less expensive than they are now.

If sewing is not your strong point, maybe you can knit, crochet, or do needlepoint! These hobbies can produce some very nice gifts i.e., scarves, hats, mittens (very easy patterns), blankets or afghans, etc. There are a lot of needlepoint projects that would make some very useful gifts, i.e., pillow cases, napkins, tablecloths, doilies, etc.

The point of this article is you don’t have to spend a lot of money on gifts that people may or may not like, especially if you do not have money to spend in the first place. Create a budget and stick to it. Don’t use your credit card at all this year, if possible. That way, you won’t have a heart attack when you get your bills in January. Make this Christmas one that you will remember for the rest of your life. Give from your heart, not from your checkbook or credit card!