OK, everyone, I know you are probably waiting to hear how my story ends. Will I be in continuous back pain even though I know where it is coming from or will I find a way to minimize the pain and go on with my life? Here goes!
When I came home from the three weeks of rehabilitation in Chicago, I knew that I was going to have to make some drastic changes. My life with my husband was beyond repair. All we did when we were together was fight. This made my back pain worse because all I could think about was how unhappy I was.
The second week after coming home from Chicago, I made the decision to move to Tucson, Arizona! Yes, you’re right! The decision came out of the blue. The winter weather made my back hurt and every day I tried to feel better to no avail. That’s it! I have to move to a warmer dryer climate to get rid of the pain and get stronger psychologically. When I told my husband I was moving to Tucson, he was very upset. I tried very hard to explain that our marriage was hurt beyond repair and I needed to go somewhere to heal. He couldn’t and didn’t understand. This is another story that I will definitely tell, but not today!
Anyway, by February 15th, I was packed and on a plane to Tucson with $500 in my pocket, a suitcase full of clothes, and a heavy duty pain in my back.
I called a friend, who had moved to Tucson to go to school, to pick me up at the airport. Strange, I can’t remember his name right now. He picked me up, brought me to his house that he shared with 2 other guys. I stayed a few weeks, just long enough to find a job and a place of my own. Winter in Tucson is not very cold for people used to Midwest winters; however, for Tucsonans, winter coats, long pants, and sneakers instead of flip flops were the uniform of the day.
Right after moving into my own place, I started walking to strengthen my legs and back muscles. Long hours on my feet in my chosen profession as a nurse was not considered exercise. Every day before and after work I walked for 20 minutes. Walking every day built up my muscles, but I made more progress when the weather started getting warmer.
During the middle of the day, I went across the street to the high school and started walking around the quarter mile track. After awhile, I started to jog slowly. I was definitely not a runner. I could only jog one quarter of a mile at a time. By the time school was out in June, I was walking/jogging 3 miles every day. My back pain was actually getting better. My life was full of work, exercise, new friends and my back was feeling better. A miracle!
I couldn’t believe it, but it was true! My back was actually better. Before I did my exercises every day I stretched my muscles thoroughly, did the walking/jogging faithfully, and kept my spirits cheerful.
If I can impart to you anything from my own story, I would like for you to realize that you too can take your chronic pain, no matter where it is, from severe to tolerable by making some positive changes in your life. One very important part of your healing is going to be the other aspects of your life that are causing you stress and making the pain worse. I had to leave my marriage; hopefully, you won’t have to do anything that drastic to change your life for the positive.
I’m here for each of you out there with any type of chronic pain. If I can help you in any way please comment on any article in the blog and leave your contact information. God Bless all people that are dealing with chronic pain.



