It’s Christmas Eve 2009

This morning when I got up, I realized my dog had not slept with me as he usually does. I heard him walking around about 6:45 am looking for me. Calling out to him didn’t help because he is hard of hearing so I got up to let him outside. By the time I got to the living room, it was too late. He had gone to his usual “wee-wee” place in front of the TV and did his thing. How could he do that? He knew I had gone to bed and left the light on so he could see to climb up his steps to the bed. Why did he openly do his thing on the carpet?

Hank may not be able to hear or see very well, but he is aware of changes in his routine. Last night, he watched me while I wrapped presents in the kitchen until 10:00 pm. He watched as I typed up instructions for his sitter. When I talked with his sitter on the phone, he began to withdraw. He knew something was going on that involved him and he didn’t want any part of it.

The trip to the sitter will be a little hard for Hank because he gets so nervous. I have to drive on the freeway for quite awhile, which means this usually easy going little white dog is anxiously having a “hissy fit” for 20 miles, until the exit in West Allis. Then I have to put him on a leash and let him walk around and relieve himself. What a drive!

194204As you can see, this little 14 year old dog is may be old and infirm,but he is as smart as a whip. He fights me all the way there, but when he gets to his sitter’s house, Kathi always makes him feel welcome. Hank always has other dogs to play with. And besides, he’s only going to be there two nights and one day. The last couple of times he went to Kathi’s, he had to stay three weeks each time. I tried to explain to him that it won’t be so bad, but he’s not convinced.

I feel bad about leaving him with a sitter, but I’m glad there will be someone there to give him his medicine and let him outside to do his thing. At least he won’t be alone. He doesn’t know it yet, but he’s going to have a great time.

On the way to Kathi’s, I’m going to tell him the story of Christmas. I’m going to tell him how Joseph and Mary were getting ready for their trip to Bethlehem. Every so often, the Romans required everyone to travel to the place of their birth and be counted. In other words, Joseph and Mary had to participate in a census, just like we do every so often. Joseph was concerned for Mary as she was with child, so he wanted to make the trip as easy for her as possible.

When they got to Bethlehem, Joseph went to a hotel to get a room for himself and Mary. Every room in the hotel was full. Joseph heard the same story from every hotel owner in Bethlehem, “There are no rooms available here.” Joseph asked the last hotel owner if there was some other type of shelter available, because his wife was with child and needed a place to rest. The hotel owner told Joseph that he and Mary could stay in the stable behind the hotel with the animals.

Joseph led his donkey around to the rear of the hotel and helped Mary off. She was weary from the trip. Joseph rearranged the hay to provide a comfortable area for Mary to rest. Mary rested for awhile and then realized that it was time for her baby to be born. Joseph found a manger and filled it with hay. He also found a few pieces of material to wrap the baby in.

Mary did not have any discomfort when she gave birth to her baby. She and Joseph wrapped their baby in the material as warmly as they could and laid the baby boy in the manger. As she had been instructed, she named her newborn baby boy “Jesus.”

As soon as Jesus came into the world, a very bright star shown in the sky. The Bible says it shown in the East. Shepherds saw the star and brought their sheep in it’s direction. When they reached the stable and saw Joseph and Mary as she held Jesus in her arms, they lay face down and welcomed Jesus into the world.

The shepherds weren’t the only people who had seen the star and traveled toward it. Three king from the Orient saw the star and traveled far to bring gifts to Jesus. They brought gold, incense, and myrrh and set these gifts before Jesus. They felt that the beautiful bright star belonged to a king, so as each king presented his gift to Joseph, Mary, and Baby Jesus, he knelt in homage.

The three kings started the tradition of gift-giving as they each brought Jesus a gift. That is why we give gifts to our loved ones and people we are close to.

I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas. If you are traveling, please be careful if the streets are slippery. And for heaven’s sake, please don’t drink and drive. Be safe, and I’ll see you on Saturday. As I said yesterday, there will not be an article tomorrow, on Christmas, as I will be out of town. Take care, and God Bless every one, and thank you so much for reading my blog.

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A Season of Giving!

Christmas is almost here. There are only 12 days until Christmas Day. Every year, the children look forward to Christmas for many different reasons. Some children are happy because they are on vacation from school. Children are happy because they know they get presents either on Christmas Eve or on Christmas Day. Santa Claus or Saint Nick comes on Christmas to bring gifts to good little children. Sometimes, parents use Christmas to force their children to behave. They say, “If you don’t behave, Santa Claus will not bring you any presents for Christmas.”

Every child looks forward to getting the things they want. Even adults look forward to the day when they can buy the motorcycle of their dreams, the car they’ve always wanted, or the best high definition television money can buy. However, some people are happy when they can put food on the table and a roof over their families’ heads. Sometimes, the roof over their head leaks, the floor boards are rotting, and the basement is reeking with mildew; but, they still go on with life helping themselves and others just to live day to day. Then, you see a television program like ABC’s “Extreme Makeover: Home Edition” and realize that there are so many people out there living in substandard homes and giving shelter to the homeless, or working with the American Cancer Society to raise money to get rid of breast cancer in our lifetime. There are countless people in our world that are very unselfish and put others first every day of their lives. There are even people that take in homeless animals, care for them, feed them, and then try to find homes for them.

I have to tell you that “Extreme Makeover: Home Edition” is my all time favorite show. Watching Ty Pennington and the designers working feverishly to build or remodel a house in 7 days is not just entertaining, it is a miracle. The builders, craftsman, and volunteers that have donated their time are a real inspiration as they work 24 hours a day until the home is completed. Then, to see the reaction of the family to their new home is the most priceless thing of all. Every time I watch this show, I am emotionally overwhelmed by the family that is receiving the new home and the dedication of the builders and everyone associated with the project. There are so many people out there that deserve the very best of everything that they receive when they are chosen for this show. Unfortunately, there are so many people that are deserving of everything that life has to offer; but, they don’t receive anything for their generous hearts and the amount of work they do for others without any thoughts for themselves.

If the world was perfect, every person would have the home of their dreams, the furniture they love, and as much money as they need to fund their dreams. Even though Extreme Makeover helps one family a week, at least one family is being helped out of the poverty housing to live in a beautiful new home with new furniture, appliances, a new yard, and the best landscaping. Some people are even given their beautiful home mortgage-free, because the builder has given them a check to pay the entire mortgage. Now that is a gift.

Not only does the family receive a beautiful new home, but they also receive a vacation while their home is being transformed into a virtual palace. I believe there was only one family that asked to give back to a hospital that gave so much for their daughter’s care. This family went to the hospital every day for the week and volunteered their time on the ward. This was their way of giving back and saying “Thank You” to the doctors, nurses, and ancillary staff who had helped their daughter get better.

Christmas is a time for giving gifts to our loved ones just like the Three Kings brought gifts to Jesus at his birth. Many of us are not as affluent or rich as ABC to give a gift of a new home to someone who thinks of others first. However, the presents we give to our loved ones and a gift to a favorite charity makes us feel good because in our hearts, we know it is more important to give than to receive.  We need to keep this thought in our hearts every day of the year, “It is better to give, than to receive.”